I am more of your Esoteric/Gnosticky variety, in that it is through those lenses that I read scripture (both canonical and non-canonical) and in that mindset that I understand the concept of it as a whole.
I find the Anglican church a good framework to pursue this journey.
The Anglican church, (at least in Canada) is very inclusive, does not discriminate against gender or sexual orientation and is based on Faith, REASON and Tradition. Reason emphasized by Yours Truly. It does not require a leaving of your brain in the coat room.
I decided I wanted the children to have that sort of foundation to fall on. They may never want it, or pursue it, but I wanted it to be there for them. A spiritual 'home' the would always know is theirs.